How to get rid of clothes? The question many of us have. Here’s my advice…
I’m so happy for share some tips on getting rid of clothes, I know it’s not easy.
So, here I am, thinking I’d mastered this whole “minimalist” thing, when my husband steps in with some reality checks—aka “opportunities for growth.”
With baby number three on the way, I’ve started to see just how much stuff I’ve been holding onto and, more importantly, how much of it I really don’t need.
One of the biggest lessons he’s taught me recently is to let go.
I’ve written before about the benefits of decluttering, but I always left out the part about not replacing those things I’d just cleared out.
Now, the goal is to truly embrace doing more with less and to let that idea flow through all areas of my life.
Decision Fatigue and the Weight of “Stuff”
One friend recently introduced me to “decision fatigue.” Ever heard of it?
It’s that exhausted feeling you get when you have too many choices, and suddenly, deciding on the smallest thing feels like a chore.
I thought I was immune to it, but honestly, I was overwhelmed by the sheer amount of “stuff” and the choices they created in my day-to-day life.
Less stuff means fewer decisions and more mental clarity to focus on what truly matters—my family, my faith, and our happiness.
Step One: The Closet Clean-Out
I started my decluttering journey with my closet, and let’s just say it was eye-opening.
Clothes I hadn’t worn in years sat piled in bags, waiting for a “someday” that never came.
And then came my husband’s golden advice: don’t even go through it—just let it go.
If it’s been sitting unused for that long, I probably don’t need it.
I took his advice and donated the entire bag without a second thought, and honestly, it was freeing!
I know there’s emotional attachment to some items, but letting go has allowed me to make room for what really brings me joy.
Pro Tips from My Husband
Ladies, here’s some wisdom directly from my husband.
These two tips have been a game-changer for me (he asked me to include these verbatim statements lol) 😅😂
1. Only Keep What You Absolutely Love: He told me, “If you look in your closet and there’s something you don’t absolutely love—something you don’t get compliments on, or that I don’t love on you—then it’s time to let it go.”
It’s such a simple but powerful rule. If it doesn’t make you feel amazing, why keep it?
2. The “Two-Year Rule”: “If it’s been in your closet for two years and you haven’t touched it, let it go, Sally. It’s time to let it go.”
I loved this advice, and it really pushed me to be honest about what’s worth keeping.
I’ve been encouraged by his support, so I hope you feel encouraged too!
3. For my fellow moms out there: if you’re holding onto clothes from before you went through all those body changes, it’s time to part ways with them, too.
I get it—we think we’ll get back into that dress or skirt, but realistically, it’s just not serving us anymore.
Simplify and celebrate the amazing evolution your body has gone through instead.
The “Five Outfit Rotation” – My Secret to Keeping it Simple
Here’s what’s been working for me lately: I’m rotating five outfits that I love, that fit well, and that I feel good in.
Here’s me in one of my simple 5 lol (aka) my uniform.
These pieces are great quality, and I get compliments whenever I wear them.
Plus, it’s less laundry, less decision-making, and way more time to focus on things that matter! I’m not there yet—there’s still more to clear out—but it’s a process I’m committed to.
And I’ve set a rule for myself: no new clothing until I get through what I have.
My Tips for Decluttering
1. Bag it and Donate It: If you have items bagged up already, don’t even debate it—just let it go.
The simplicity of not going back and forth is liberating.
2. Start Small and Be Realistic: Decluttering is a journey. If you’ve built up an emotional attachment to items, it’s okay to let go bit by bit. Progress is progress!
3. Focus on What Brings You Joy: Only keep what you love, and take it from my husband: if it’s been sitting there untouched for two years, you’re not going to miss it.
A Process, Not Perfection
This journey isn’t about being perfect. It’s about finding freedom from the things that weigh me down.
As a mom, every bit of simplicity I can create in my life helps me focus on what’s truly important.
I’ve come to see this process as something God desires for me, too. In Luke 12:15, Jesus reminds us, Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.
This verse has been a guiding light, nudging me to let go of what doesn’t serve me and focus on what truly matters.
If you’re reading this and thinking about doing some decluttering of your own, start small.
Do it at your own pace, and know that each step brings you closer to living a simpler, more peaceful life.
And if you have any tips or encouragement, drop them in the comments—I’d love to hear from you!
Letting go of things I don’t need is about trusting that God has already given me everything I need.
Proverbs 30:8 says it perfectly: Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread.
In other words, God doesn’t want us to cling to “stuff” that doesn’t serve us.
If you’re looking to simplify, take it one step at a time—and let’s do this journey together.
To make it easy for your readers, here’s a summary of the decluttering tips and pro advice from this post:
Minimalism Checklist for Moms:
1. Closet Clear-Out: Bag up any clothes you haven’t worn in a year and donate without sorting.
If it’s already in a bag, just get rid of it don’t go through it
2. Pro Tips from My Husband:
• If you don’t love it, let it go.
• If it’s been untouched for two years, donate it.
3. Body Evolution Tip: Part with items that no longer serve your current self.
4. Five Favorite Outfits: Choose five outfits you love, wear them on rotation, and simplify your mornings.
5. Daily Gratitude: Trust in God’s provision and let go of things that don’t add value to your life.
Tag along with me on this journey! I’ll be sharing more, and I’d love to hear how you’re making this transition too.
Here’s to less stuff, fewer decisions, and a life focused on what matters.